Nina Dobrev may have split with Ian Somerhalder, but that isn’t getting the Vampire Diaries star down. Dobrev is sexy and very single after her breakup. And now the beauty is saying she is in “no rush” to get into another long-term relationship anytime soon.

"I've been a relationship girl and I've been in long-term relationships my whole life until this point, so I think I'm looking forward to spending some time with myself and finding myself again," Dobrev told Us Weekly. "I'm just discovering different sides of me and growing, and then I'll figure out what I like in a man when I see it."

Dobrev is on the cover of Cosmopolitan this month, and tells the magazine: “You either have chemistry or you don’t, but a lot of what attracts me is a guy’s mind and humor and talent. I need to get to know all those things before I fall for someone. I’m not a one-night-stand kind of girl. I’m a relationship girl.”

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“I’m progressive in some ways, old-fashioned in others,” Dobrev continued. “I like it when guys hold the door open and are sweet and thoughtful. The guys on our show are really good at that. A man in a suit looking put together and dapper is very attractive, but I also kind of like the I-just-rolled-out-of-bed, a-little-bit-of-scruff, effortless, not-trying-hard-but-still-sexy guy. If a guy spends more time looking in the mirror than I do, that’s a problem!” 

Nina Dobrev Nina Dobrev says she's in no rush for a new relationship.

"It's all about finding out what meshes and what doesn't, and what you like and what you don't," Dobrev explained to Us Weekly. "Life is about experiences, so I guess I'm just figuring that out."

So what does Somerhalder want in a potential GF? "I would be happy if a woman would just go for dinner with me, rather than wanting my babies straight away!" Somerhalder said recently. The Vampire Diaries co-stars broke up in May. "The relationship kind of brewed out of a friendship and the fact that they had to get into a romance for the show," an insider told Us, adding that their breakup "was inevitable."

Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder in 2011.

 Vampire Diaries returns to the CW on October 3.